Eli Sheff
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421 appearances
1 recordings
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 29 Jul
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In part, it was their ability to interact with all sorts of different people who weren't like either themselves or the people they grew up with.
Because they grew up interacting with a wider range of people, not only multiple adults, but also frequently members of the polyamorous community.
Interesting.
Yeah.
So they had a high communication ability.
upbringing which translated into being able to talk to their professors at college, for example, without feeling incredible anxiety about, oh, my God, I've got to talk to this adult.
You know, like they could go in and talk to their professors in office hours or something.
They could make new friends.
in a way that if they had lived there for a while and had established this community, and then they got sick, for example, they had people they could call on to bring them soup or Kleenex or whatever.
Like natural community makers, yeah.
Exactly.
Oh, I love that.
Yes, natural community makers.
Because they're coming from this kind of community-based, high-discussion community.
origin and that they didn't necessarily love all those family meetings when they were 13 they got really sick of the constant discussion they were tired to death yeah of the family meetings but looking back on navigating for example who does the chores moving forward in life
Right, if we look statistically at reasons for divorce right now, conflict over unpaid labor.
Yeah.
is among the top three.
So, coming from a family where the family could discuss, we're having some hard feelings about this unpaid labor.
How do we address this?
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