Eliza Fricker

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 307: Eliza Fricker Talks Parenting a Child with PDA · 18 Oct 2022 podcast

You should toughen up.

We had all those narratives coming in, which they wobble you.

You know, you end up questioning what you're doing.

And I think that's the most tricky part because you've got your innocence of what you feel is right and how you should be doing it.

But every day you're being met with this other.

And that was really, really tricky.

And it was only when we started to really pull back on that and start to say, okay, well, why does it matter if we're late?

What's going to actually happen if we're late?

we are late for school and little little things like that once you start saying that to yourself changes things again because what happens is when you've let those narratives and that advice in your anxiety does ramp up with that and so being able to just say okay well we're not doing that anymore let's see what happens when we don't do that and I always talk about one of the big changes for us was not eating dinner at the table at the end of a school day which had been demand laden

I had this fixation.

I don't know whether it's having Italian family, but that we had to sit at the dinner table.

You know, we had to eat this square meal and sit at the dinner table.

And I got really bogged down with that, thinking we had to do that.

And actually, once I removed that and thought, why do we need to do that at the end of a school day?

That's another demand.

And took that away.

It was, again, another one of those moments where you think,

oh my goodness, why were we doing that for so

I mean, you've got to think that in England, we're still harking back to Victorian values often.

So that is very much in our education system.

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