Eliza Fricker
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236 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2022
last heard Oct 2022
Eliza Fricker’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Children learn by osmosis.
If you are kind as an adult and they see you being kind and they see you being active and they see you partaking in things, that's how they learn.
They learn by seeing what you're doing and they will become an adult more than likely very similar to that.
If you're barking orders at them, they are very likely to become another adult who barks orders at someone.
But actually, children will get there.
You know, Harry Thompson talks about being a PDA adult.
You know, he can drive a car.
He cleans his flat.
You know, all these things people see when their children are struggling within the school system.
And they think, I don't think they'll ever get there.
They'll never get to this amazing place of being a PDA.
adult who can thrive for themselves, but they do, they get there, but they get there through us being kind and showing encouragement and on their own timeline.
Yeah, I think a lot has to come from us as the adult.
I think we probably have to do the toughest lessons come from really looking into ourselves and looking back at things from our childhood, the way that we were parented,
And I think sometimes we stick to those things because that's how we were raised.
And it is okay to say, I'm going to do it differently.
Or just because that happened to me doesn't mean I have to do it again.
I mean, my dad jokes, he always says,
you've got to fight the gene pool always fight that gene pool and I love that but you know you you just question it all and I think that that's something that's amazing when you you do parent differently you do you question it all and you just say but why though why is that important I've got a page in the book pick your battles which is a
old saying but you can look back on that and it became a bit of a joke in our family when we'd see sort of other families really you know barking a order at a child when we were out and about and we were like yeah but
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