E.R. Fightmaster
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841 appearances
4 recordings
3 series
first heard Jan 2025
last heard 22 Jun
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. Recording in January.
Will you sing it for us right now? Thank you. Okay. Thank you for the new theme song. That was good. Yeah, thank you. I loved that. Yeah, you guys think I didn't write a song about you. That's insane.
Oh, yeah.
For sure. Well, I kind of have like a... I kind of have a goal, which is that I want everybody that comes to the show to leave and get fucked. Yes. And I find that that is very important to me. And I feel that way, like, whenever I do, like, when I do, like, fan conventions for grays. Yep. And they show up and they'll have started dating because they met each other in, like, the online forums.
That's so hot. Or they come to the show and they've, like, the music shows and they've met each other, like, through, like, the music or whatever. I feel very accomplished.
Yeah.
You know, still buy the T-shirt. Just get that merch. Just get that merch. You're going to regret it if you don't. But people will come to the show solo and they will leave with a group of friends. Yes. And that makes me very happy.
That is the whole thing. Yeah.
What are your thoughts on this ask a dyke? Y'all got to start plugging into each other. We are so worried right now. I think because of like TikTok and Instagram and all the social media, we are so worried about like our labels, like if we're a top or a bottom.
When I started having sex with my girlfriend, when I was a baby, a like 14 year old baby, the way that we figured out what sex was, because there was no other way to figure it out. was by finding the thing that was most pleasurable to us. And it was all soft touches. It was all like a hand on the thigh, oh my God. It was all like, we found everything very slowly, very organically.
And I still do a lot of that as an adult, like when I'm in a new relationship, you know what I mean? Like I think that those moments with a partner where you're like really appreciating all of the things that we're taught are like, I don't know, not the goal.
Like everything other than the privates. Yeah. Like that is a part of really getting your oxytocin levels right, really getting plugged into your partner. And then... It doesn't matter if you have the confidence or not, because all of that moves away from you and you're having sex with a person. And that is so much more important than how you're identifying in that moment, in my opinion.
And I think over the course of time, it will become clear to you as you like start to have sex more thoughtfully and comfortably, you know, if that label is important to you at all. But like the reason I'm a top is because I'm comfortable. And I got comfortable by being very aware and in love with the woman that I was sleeping with.
And I think that we're starting at top instead of starting in love.
A real top is a good bottom.
That is the truth. That's what we know about doms. The thing that makes a good dom is knowing when to stop and paying attention. A real top is an excellent bottom. And going in there to dominate... doesn't make a ton of sense. It's just, it's like, that's not the purpose of the experience.
That's what I'm, I'm a little bit worried about, about everybody. Cause I'm also like, when we're talking about tops and bottoms, like, I'm thinking about energetics. For sure. Me too. It's, like, not to be, like, you know, crass, but it's not like I'm never getting fucked by my partner. Right. That's not it. Like, we're really talking about, like, an energy. Yeah.
And I... Unless, of course, you're, like, stone butch and that's important to you and, you know, whatever. For sure. It's not my body. It's not my business. But... I think we're too focused on the politics of penetration and we are not focused enough on our partners, whether that partner is a one-night stand or the person you land with.
And I think we need to get that cis hat man out of our brains and start thinking about what we actually like about having sex with our queer partner.
That was beautiful.
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