Eric Lanigan
speaker
421 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2019
last heard May 2019
Eric Lanigan’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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of needing either validation or needing achievement to
To feel worthy of
And that creates pressure.
And that creates obligation.
And so that that obligation based motivation it might express itself in
What I call
conceptual beneficial level assessment or shoulds, which is where you can sit there or a child
who might deeply want to
Do something big in the world.
Can sit there.
And
think about what would be beneficial to them.
And then that shows up as an obligation, which they might feel trapped by.
And then that pressure
from needing to to succeed and and follow all of these obligations they've
Pin pin down.
creates an unpleasant, overwhelming experience like they're on a uh
They're trapped and then they turn away from that to some sort of
uh distraction.
And not all gamers have this pattern, but some do.
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