Esther Perel
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Why is it toxic?
Because you're... What is the tone when you say what you just said?
Like they're using that.
There's a word for it.
What?
Contempt.
Contempt.
What stands out when you say, what's the big deal?
Why you need to always overblow things?
You always have to make such a big drama.
Just chill, just relax, just keep it in perspective.
Just, just, just.
Meaning, what's wrong with you?
And what's wrong with you says, I have contempt.
Which is really the number one killer, actually.
Every biography is a betrayal of someone else.
You cannot tell your story without telling things about people who are in your story who didn't ask to be spoken about.
That's by definition.
I mean, this is the era where more people have written biographies than ever before.
Every person has a biography to write.