Esther Perel
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Does that give you how I got to where I am?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
No story.
No story.
That's the same as the erotic formula. Attraction plus obstacles equals excitement.
That's the same as the erotic formula. Attraction plus obstacles equals excitement.
It's the same in the rules of desire.
It's the same in the rules of desire.
If there's no obstacle, if there's no friction, we're going back to what we said.
If there's no obstacle, if there's no friction, we're going back to what we said.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Not, what do they do?
Not, what do they do?
That's right. You're about to enter the marital cell.
That's right. You're about to enter the marital cell.
And your monastic life.
And your monastic life.
I want to go back to the laundromat. I love the place. I really, I think the laundromat or other places like it, the bookstore, the coffee bar, the train station, the train itself. I mean, there's so many places for that friction.