Esther Perel

Seriously.

It's so true.

It's also like... Who do you want to be?

How do you show up?

What do you want?

It's like so... Product, you know?

I'm coming to check if you fit the product.

Yes.

Who do you want to be?

I mean, you want a person to have this, this, this.

Who do you want to be?

What do you bring?

What do you want to offer?

What do you want to share?

Who do you want them to think that they are in the presence of?

Rather than this one-sided, you know, this is, that's, you know, but the piece that would help a lot with that, Alex, is that, and I think that that's one of the most

of things on the dating scene is that the dating takes place in a completely secluded place away from your life yes dating takes place either virtually maybe at some point you'll finally get to meet somebody and in flesh and and basically

At some point, if you think something is really happening here, you'll have the big reveal and you'll bring this person to your life, to your friends, to present them.

Instead of bringing the person in your life, I'm going to whatever.

I'm going to hike tomorrow.