Esther Perel

I'm going to look for antiques tomorrow.

I'm going to bike tomorrow.

Do you want to join?

Are you into this stuff?

I'm going to the movies.

I'm going with some friends.

Join us.

That is lower the stakes.

Cause I'll tell you what I'm told, but that is so vulnerable about your friends may judge you.

Your friends may not like me, but your friends are the people that know you the most.

They will see.

they will tell you looks good or they will tell you no not not really you know and then you decide what you want anyway but bring the person in your life if it doesn't work my life didn't miss anything

Otherwise, what happens is three times a week, I'm out there dating away from the people that I really care about and with whom I actually enjoy myself.

And then I come back empty-handed sometimes and I have to report of my bad dates.

That's right.

I was going to go do this.

You can even do it alone.

I was going to go do this.

Would you like to join me?

Meet around an activity that is part of your life where you have a certain confidence already and you can share something you bring, you know, and then you will see, you know, you'll come out of the movies, the theater, the whatever, the show.