Esther Perel
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because it's not static.
No.
Yeah.
It changes from relationship to relationship.
It's not like I'm always in that position because my attachment style is always the same.
It changes.
It changes.
Oh, it's just a matter of time.
At some point they will.
They will.
But here's the thing.
The research is very clear on this, Alex.
It's really not so much the conflict itself as the repair.
There are couples that are way more volatile.
They bicker more, they argue more, it's faster, it escalates.
It's really, can they make up?
And how do they make up?
And do they make up just by kind of smoothing it over?
Or do they make up and they actually are able to acknowledge what they contributed to the argument?
And the repair is more important than the actual conflict.