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Esther Perel

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Because it's not static.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

No.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Yeah.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It changes from relationship to relationship.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It's not like I'm always in that position because my attachment style is always the same.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It changes.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It changes.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Oh, it's just a matter of time.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

At some point they will.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

They will.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

But here's the thing.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

The research is very clear on this, Alex.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It's really not so much the conflict itself as the repair.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

There are couples that are way more volatile.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

They bicker more, they argue more, it's faster, it escalates.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It's really, can they make up?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

And how do they make up?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

And do they make up just by kind of smoothing it over?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Or do they make up and they actually are able to acknowledge what they contributed to the argument?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

And the repair is more important than the actual conflict.