Ethan Evans

Yeah.

You know, say it or don't.

Yeah.

And it's not, again, I respect there are quieter people and give space, but only to a degree.

betrayal is the number one any sort of and to some degree that's the letting me down where you promise something like i'm counting on something and then it doesn't show up and it makes me look bad anything that hits people's ego or identity is actually more than raw performance if you lose me money i'm upset but if you make me look bad i'm furious even if i can't admit it right so

If you leave me hung out to dry where I feel foolish or I feel incompetent, that's going to be the number one thing.

The second thing is anything that leads me to distrust you more generally.

I see you, you know, cheating on an expense report or behaving inappropriately.

Again, anything that makes me question you as a human being.

Yes.

is probably deeper than things that make me question your performance.

Because performance, maybe you can get better.

Maybe I can train you.

Maybe you can learn.

Whereas if I start to distrust you, there's really no path back from that, right?

It's a little bit like how many marriages recover when a partner cheats, right?

It's just usually kind of over that same thing.

I feel like leaders- Breaking trust, though.

It's not maintaining my confidence.

It's another betrayal.