Eve Rodsky

Right.

Right.

So –

Especially in this case, he couldn't really understand what was happening, why I was being so triggered over when he took the garbage out.

And then finally, when I realized that skipping the step of the minimum standard of care was actually not helpful.

So when I finally sat down, this was years ago when I was developing the rules of the

just like the legal system, back to what I said earlier.

This is designed similar to behavior design experiment.

In our legal system, Nicole, we adjudicate about a trillion dollars a year in something called the tort system.

So, I mean, you know that, but for your listeners, right?

If McDonald's serves you coffee that's too hot and you spill it on your leg and you give yourself a third to re-burn, is McDonald's responsible?

So how do we know if McDonald's is responsible?

We use something called the reasonable person test.

That's similar to the minimum standard of care and fair play.

So when Seth said to me, you're not being reasonable that you want the garbage to go out four times a day because I'm not even home.

And so that's not going to, so don't leave like empty milk cartons near my bed and stop being passive aggressive.

Understand that in our house, you can restore accountability and trust in me because garbage will go out once a day.

I won't tell you when it's going out.

There will be a liner back in the bag, in the bin, and it will go out once a day.

And then it was like Moses parting the Red Sea.