EZ Zwayne

But Satan has twisted it, our flesh has perverted it, and the world has tainted it.

And so we need to get back to a place where we see it in the beautiful context in which God has created it.

you're not supposed to put up with it at all.

The problem is, is that because it's become so prevalent, women don't take any steps.

Oh, I guess every guy does this.

Oh, I guess he's got it under control.

I don't wanna upset him and ruffle his feathers.

Listen, anytime someone is in sin, anytime someone is in violation of God's natural design, they're doing something unnatural and the end result is gonna be destruction.

So here's what I would say to the wife.

If you're approaching this from a selfless standpoint,

Like Philippians 2 says, let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit.

We're to consider others even more important than ourselves.

If you love your husband, you're going to recognize, aside from how this is impacting you and your marriage and your children, it's destroying him.

And so love would say, deal with it.

So you got to sit down with him.

You got to open up your heart.

You got to come at him with love, compassion, but also honesty and saying, listen, this is not right.

And if he doesn't take heed, you've got to get others involved.

You've got to go to your pastor.

You've got to go to close friends because it's not a light thing.