Florence Given
speaker
8,560 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 8 Sep
Florence Given’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 19 in all, peaking in Jun 2026 with 5.
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Like like almost like her existence is an apology, just like moving out of the way on the pavement before anyone else could even get to her apologizing when people bump into her watching your sister or your friends or the girls at school not raise their hand in class because it draws attention to them.
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I read a statistic that girls put that raise their hands less in class because they don't want to draw attention to their appearance.
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Girls become very self-conscious in school.
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Like there are all of these ways that we make ourselves smaller, okay?
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And so in order to disappoint people in your life and actually create a life that is architected from your desires, you will have to become a bad girl.
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You will have to become a very bad girl.
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You will have to disappoint and become disobedient to your training.
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And it's going to feel almost like a dog that has been taught this trick over and over and over and over again.
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Imagine like a dog that's been trained so well, suddenly disobeying its owner.
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That's how it feels.
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It feels wrong to women to disappoint other people because we have been taught to be nice, to be caregiving.
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It's almost this like motherly thing that we train in women.
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We train this coddling and this caretaking and this rescuing of other people's discomfort.
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We rescue people constantly.
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I sort of lived my whole life up until like, I know I'd say my early twenties, like a sponge for other people's discomfort.
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I'll speak about some of my experiences.
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I mentioned earlier that I dropped out of university.
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So when I was 19 years old, I dropped out of university to pursue art and social media and writing.
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So social media has always just been like my platform to broadcast my art and my writing.
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And I
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