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Frances Fry

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
343 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

What is the probability you have of winning?

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

I'm going to round it off to zero.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

So the problem with the soloist is that you will have such a mediocre ceiling that you can achieve in the world.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

And that's so sad because you had all of the raw materials to get there.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

In fact, if I said to you, would you rather have a team of soloists or a team of team players?

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

This is one where it's the person has the mistaken impression that what they're bringing to the table is effort.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

And so by hook or by crook, they have to work harder than everyone else.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

So this is the person who secretly goes to the gym.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

This is the person who secretly stays late.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

This is the person who in secret exhausts themselves saying,

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

doing all of these, putting in all of this extra time, again, I think probably as a soloist when they're doing it, but they're putting in the extra hours as if there is a participation trophy.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

And once you get out of Little League, there are no more participation trophies.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

But the superhero is acting like there is a participation trophy and that if I work harder, I win.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

And it's just not true.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

I like that frame too.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

Yeah.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

And this try harder mentality, you're not going to win against anyone of consequence and they're going to have a better life.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

Because if you want to think great ideas, you have to be well rested and well nourished and well exercised.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

Well, the person who's competing on effort wins.

TED Talks Daily
Sunday Pick: How to beat impostor syndrome | from Fixable

They have let those things go long ago.