Frances Fry

And almost always, it's way too laborious.

And so you will, as a perfectionist, accomplish so much less in the world than other people that are unburdened by that binary and see it much more as a continuum and realize...

that worrying about which font you selected for the paper that you submitted is going to matter.

But you could spend a month, sorry, but one could spend a month thinking about that.

And you know what everyone else that you're competing against?

Well, while people who are inefficiently doing that, you know what the rest of us are doing?

Inventing fire.

Which leads us to the second cousin.

And the second cousin is the soloist.

And so in the example you just had, the women are doing it alone in their quest for perfection, and the men are not going it alone in their quest for good enough, in their quest for this is a publishable paper.

And so to your escapist thing, that's exactly right.

I'm escaping the weakness associated with help, which is...

I don't even want to call that a distortion.

It's just baldly incorrect.

I don't know a single person of great accomplishment that got it without help.

Not a single one.

Shameless.

Shameless and creating ecosystems that could help.

And just think about it.

You alone are going to compete against me and all the people I can galvanize to help me.