Frances Fry
speaker
658 appearances
6 recordings
2 series
first heard Jul 2025
last heard 24 May
Frances Fry’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And it's a great strategy.
Not everyone can reduce in every context.
If you can't, you have to figure out how to palatably accommodate, how to palatably accommodate it.
As good as I am at reducing, that's how bad I am at accommodating, which is why I'm so good at reducing.
So I want to be super clear.
But let me give you the second option because I do have degrees of freedom to reduce.
So accommodating, you know, the popular version of it today would be Mel Robbins' Let Them.
It's a beautiful accommodation.
The ultimate accommodation.
And what is Let Them for listeners who don't know?
And what Let Them is, first of all, it's like mystical if you ask me, but I'll tell you why.
Which is, if someone else is doing something that feels negatively emotionally contagious, let them.
They're being passive aggressive, let them.
If they're being inconsiderate, let them.
And she just goes through this mantra of instead of trying to control it, you let them, and then you do your own inside job of you get to choose how to respond to it.
But you...
at all costs, do not try to control them.
It's like the 100% accommodation strategy.
Now, this has worked so well for people, they're getting tattoos.
Say, let them.
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