Frances Fry

Yeah.

And, you know, my, like, pick in a gender camp, go one or the other.

I don't get to pick, but I'm not... It's, you know, if the ladies all experience it, doesn't mean I always experience it.

Let's be honest.

These categories are fuzzy.

Yeah, they're very fuzzy.

So, but I do think that...

In my distortion field, the longer away I am from something, I tend to put more of a halo on it.

So I do think I have a Dunning, I think I'm very objective.

With distance.

But I do, with distance, it just gets better.

It's like how I interpret silence as applause.

Other people interpret silence as concern.

Yeah.

What I would say to that is that your solution is the solution for people that live an examined life.

My solution is for everyone else.

I look forward to it.

So I do think our, how we respond to failure, even small f failure in the meeting, I didn't use the right words, you know, just whatever the small f failure is.

I do think if we do it with curiosity about how I might do it better next time versus judgment, oh my gosh, I didn't achieve.

I bet the judgy version of us like widens the imposter syndrome.