Freya India

So that obviously they're going to spend hours on TikTok where people are talking to them and talking about their problems because they don't have anything resembling that in real life. Um, And so, yeah, I think a lot of the things we kind of laugh at young people for as being kind of narcissistic and I guess selfish and kind of we cringe at them having these crazy screen times.

It's like, what else is there?

It's like, what else is there?

It's like, what else is there?

Yeah, I think in the modern world, like adults, they view everything as like imposing on their children. So we kind of became suspicious of anyone who's authoritative. So we think they're being controlling or like old fashioned. So adults kind of politely stepped back and kind of allow children just to become themselves and act the way they want.

Yeah, I think in the modern world, like adults, they view everything as like imposing on their children. So we kind of became suspicious of anyone who's authoritative. So we think they're being controlling or like old fashioned. So adults kind of politely stepped back and kind of allow children just to become themselves and act the way they want.

Yeah, I think in the modern world, like adults, they view everything as like imposing on their children. So we kind of became suspicious of anyone who's authoritative. So we think they're being controlling or like old fashioned. So adults kind of politely stepped back and kind of allow children just to become themselves and act the way they want.

Yeah. And, you know, there's obviously an element of that that's important in parenting. But I think what happened is parents stepped back. So they just became like our best friends. Then religion retreated away from public life. Then communities broke down. Neighbors stopped knowing each other. And then if you're an anxious young person, there's no one there. And...

Yeah. And, you know, there's obviously an element of that that's important in parenting. But I think what happened is parents stepped back. So they just became like our best friends. Then religion retreated away from public life. Then communities broke down. Neighbors stopped knowing each other. And then if you're an anxious young person, there's no one there. And...

Yeah. And, you know, there's obviously an element of that that's important in parenting. But I think what happened is parents stepped back. So they just became like our best friends. Then religion retreated away from public life. Then communities broke down. Neighbors stopped knowing each other. And then if you're an anxious young person, there's no one there. And...

we got rid of anything that was like more substantial guidance so I think if you think of therapy culture today a lot of people think oh if you're an anxious young person you have more advice than ever like you have all this guidance but I actually think modern culture has very little to say to anxious young people because we got rid of anything more substantial because we thought it was judgmental so you can't tell someone how to live their life or what to do

we got rid of anything that was like more substantial guidance so I think if you think of therapy culture today a lot of people think oh if you're an anxious young person you have more advice than ever like you have all this guidance but I actually think modern culture has very little to say to anxious young people because we got rid of anything more substantial because we thought it was judgmental so you can't tell someone how to live their life or what to do

we got rid of anything that was like more substantial guidance so I think if you think of therapy culture today a lot of people think oh if you're an anxious young person you have more advice than ever like you have all this guidance but I actually think modern culture has very little to say to anxious young people because we got rid of anything more substantial because we thought it was judgmental so you can't tell someone how to live their life or what to do

We got rid of anything to do with God or religion because that was superstitious. We stopped appealing to moral character and telling them they should improve themselves and be better because that's also judgmental and, you know, claiming that there's a right and wrong. And all that we have left is like these endless empty platitudes of be yourself, you do you, you know best.

We got rid of anything to do with God or religion because that was superstitious. We stopped appealing to moral character and telling them they should improve themselves and be better because that's also judgmental and, you know, claiming that there's a right and wrong. And all that we have left is like these endless empty platitudes of be yourself, you do you, you know best.

We got rid of anything to do with God or religion because that was superstitious. We stopped appealing to moral character and telling them they should improve themselves and be better because that's also judgmental and, you know, claiming that there's a right and wrong. And all that we have left is like these endless empty platitudes of be yourself, you do you, you know best.

You know, adults telling that to young people who... I think are craving some direction. Like there's no clear milestones to adulthood anymore to follow. And so they look to the adults and the adults are saying, you know best. And of course you feel anxious. The anxiety gets worse.

You know, adults telling that to young people who... I think are craving some direction. Like there's no clear milestones to adulthood anymore to follow. And so they look to the adults and the adults are saying, you know best. And of course you feel anxious. The anxiety gets worse.

You know, adults telling that to young people who... I think are craving some direction. Like there's no clear milestones to adulthood anymore to follow. And so they look to the adults and the adults are saying, you know best. And of course you feel anxious. The anxiety gets worse.

But then it becomes someone who doesn't know you. So let's say you have a relationship problem, like you're a young woman who has met someone and you're not sure about him. The average young woman will now go on YouTube and turn to the dating experts and the attachment style. And get the guidance from experts because they don't have adults in their lives who know them intimately.