Gabriel Mizrahi

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17,890 appearances 69 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2024 last heard 6d ago

Gabriel Mizrahi’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And the result, she says, is often emotional loneliness, believing that your parents' emotional state is more important than your emotional reality, and developing unconscious ideas that, you know, like if I become successful enough, lovable enough, helpful enough, easy enough, good enough, I will finally get the relationship I want from my parent. matched
That's that's the thesis. matched
Some people be crazy. matched
Uh and your mom is one of them. matched
No, it's more like a general template that can look a few different ways. matched
I think what this author is describing probably cuts across multiple diagnoses and labels and maybe even personalities that don't have a label. matched
I don't matched
You're gonna read it and be like, I grew up in Michigan. matched
The worst thing about our family is that we had a cabin I hated. matched
Or it's one of those books you pick up thinking it's gonna help you understand your friends and do a better podcast and then you're like, Oh Yeah, exactly. matched
So he goes on, reading it was pretty eye-opening, as my mother seems to match a lot of the traits described in the book. matched
She has low empathy, becomes defensive when criticized, can have impulsive reactions, doesn't really believe in boundaries within a family, and struggles with self-awareness. matched
Sounds like so many of the parents we hear about on the show. matched
Growing up, doing something that upset my mother would often result in the silent treatment. matched
This has been happening since I was around five or six. matched
I have a really vivid memory of writing down my feelings of frustration and anger towards my mother because I was trying to find a way to express myself. matched
Her response was to completely dismiss what I was feeling and say, maybe I should write a list of things that are difficult about living with you. matched
I know what you mean. matched
It's fascinating that an adult could be that threatened by a child and their feelings about them even at that stage. matched
So it must be even harder as an adult. matched
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