Gabriel Mizrahi

I mean, he can say the words, but that might not be what's true in his heart of hearts.

If he doesn't go through this process, he has to work through this in his own way.

He has to come to this conclusion on his own, and then he has to decide what he wants to do about it with you.

I love that.

That would probably mean a lot to him, actually, to hear.

Jordan, the more we talk about this, the more I'm appreciating just how alone she feels in this.

And there's really no easy solution for that.

Yeah, as long as her husband can't see this behavior as concerning, she might always feel alone in this and somewhat distant from him.

And that's really challenging.

But that might be a phase she needs to go through while he digs into this with his therapist.

Yeah.

But then she's also saying it's incredibly hurtful.

I think I know you don't mean to do this, but also you're hurting me.

I'm just I'm trying to figure out how they work through that.

I think you nailed it.

I think that process is what's going to get them through this period, even when they're not totally on the same page yet.

Hey, no-nonsense Papa Ernie and hippie Grandpa Bert.

Before I ask my question, I just want to say, love the show, love the advice.

I live for this fair and balanced, homoerotic dude's cruise each week, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

No clue.