Garrain Jones
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Dec 2024
Garrain Jones’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That sensitivity is the same sensitivity that has had me inspire millions of people because I'm sensitive to how broken the world's heart is. And so I have a sensitive to the world suffering. And so that same sensitivity has my intuition at a very high level.
So all of the non-physical world things that are so, so like wizard-like and magical, I have a sensitivity to pick up on those things to be able to utilize and feel when I'm walking in a room and you can feel the energy bodies of everybody around. So if I don't embrace that, what's naturally inside of me, I can't be authentic.
So it's not necessary for me to overt myself to be this overly masculine person when I'm not. You know what people tell me now? I love how safe I feel around you. I've never felt this safe in the presence of another masculine man who didn't want anything from me. And, and, and In a drop of a heartbeat, I'll protect and provide my family. That's easy for me.
And in a drop of a heartbeat, I can be so soft with my daughter who's three when she's crying and she's just like, she's redlining and I'm just holding her and holding her and being the space that can hold for all of her tears and being the space that can hold for when my wife is angry to be the space to hold for all of it.
That takes a special kind of man who knows himself that won't get lost in all these other identities. But the true self, when fully accepted, oh my goodness, you have sweetness of life on the horizon for you.
Yeah. Well, I mean, we got to, anytime I talk about something, it's important to talk about the context. You know, it's hard to blame out the, when we talk about adults or deteriorated children, if you take this suffering or people lacking confidence, or let's just say the number one fear in the world, even more than death, is public speaking. Okay, I can hear that, but why?
Okay, let's take it all the way back to when I was five, trying to sing and express myself when there's parental intolerance. It's like when parents are just sleep deprived and everything, can you please just shut up? So when you tell a child you're too loud or too much, they turn that impact into the same thing that they turn the impact of the beginning state of language.
ABCs turns into words, sentences, paragraphs, essays, books, libraries. All right, cool. The beginning of impact of language, shut up, you're too loud, you're too much. Me singing in front of my whole family. And they're like, oh, Garen, you can't sing, you can't dance. I wonder where my lack of confidence came from.
It's possibly because when I was learning how to express, I didn't even know what puzzle pieces were in this box. I was learning. Maybe it was a little messy, but I was five. So when we're little, Unconscious parenting will try to, they even have a song, Hush little baby, won't you cry? Think about what that's actually saying. Your expression, I don't want to hear.
If I could rewrite it, I would do it just like this. Cry little baby, won't you cry? You get to express what is in your heart And if no words is still your truth So no more hushing what's real for you Cry little baby, won't you cry Cry little baby, won't you cry I would sing that and this is what I sing to my kids. No, keep crying because we don't know what that is.
So I'm not going to put my parental intolerance off on your precious new expression where we don't even know what that is. It's got to come out. That's where it comes from.
Thank you. I really appreciate it. This is why I do inner child work. There's work for everyone out there, but for me, the reason why we're able to get so deep Because I never take my eye off the kid inside of the adult. They're like, damn, I feel like you can see me. I was like, you want to know what I'm looking at? I'm like looking at little Garen. I'm looking at little Connell.
I'm like looking at little Brady. And I'm just zoning in and saying, hey, you have a friend. You're not alone. What is it that actually makes you happy?
Yeah, well, the thing about it is that child is inside of you already. We just let it, you know, we say, oh, be a man. What exactly does that mean when we have been groomed? Boys don't cry. We don't share tears. We don't express our feelings. And I wonder why the rate of men committing suicide is growing every year. I wonder where that comes from.
possibly because they don't know who to share or feel safe enough to share their deepest, darkest, most precious, vulnerable secrets that maybe a tear or two could probably just have cleared your nervous system. So this is a very deep conversation. And the best way I know how is to remember something that you used to love as a child. Just remember anything.
It doesn't matter, GI Joes, building sandcastles, looking up at the sky, running, jumping, singing, dancing. Even if it's really small, you think it's really small. And I want you to once a week. I don't have enough time. For yourself, that's probably the issue. You have not carved out time for the most important thing in the world, which is the self. So let's just say five to 10 minutes.
If you can't, Carve out five to ten minutes a week for yourself and your heart. You probably deserve everything that's currently happening in your life. Five to ten minutes a week and take yourself on an inner child date. Yourself alone. Don't bring anybody else. Whether it was the playground, the seesaw, playing football, whatever.
and just allow, imagine what it was like whenever you used to hit that baseball or go swimming and just be in the energy of that and allow yourself to just feel that and be like, ah, I love you, little G. That right there can radically transform anyone's life. Why? Because the EKGs of the heart take the most powerful frequency in the world. So when you use it,
It just might have special gifts for you. And what I learned was, oh my goodness, the little kid is the one with the boundless energy. The little kid is the one with the endless creativity. The little kid is the one that always had these big aspirations of life. Where did it go?
Yeah, no, that right there. Easy. Like me and my wife, that's it in the beginning. we were like wrestling. I'm like, so hot. And she's like, he's so hot. And that's when we had the best sex. And I didn't even know that was going to happen. This was like a thing that I fumbled upon, but it was something about this act of play that heightened the frequency.
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