Garrain Jones
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131 appearances
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Dec 2024
Garrain Jones’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yeah. And then one thing I want to tell men, just make sure that you have range, because if you always stay in that, then it'll be the point where when the dynamics of because the dynamics of the woman is always changing. You can never grasp what that is. That's like trying to.
really contain the waves of the ocean if you just stay in that and she's in a different mode yes then over time she'll be like oh i just feel like you're my i'm mothering you or something and and so like make sure that when you're in the play you also have
and you work on having a range where like say for instance you're walking down the street and there's like it's like a dark alley and there's like three other men and they're drunk like literally baby hold my hand to the right look down straight ahead boom I got you like that's not a time to play so she also wants to feel that oh this man can also protect me as well So play, protect, persevere.
I love that. Because I never thought about it in a way where you think about songs that have range. One of my all-time favorite songs, as far as musically, is Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen. And the level of range of where that song goes, I'm like, what? The first time I heard it, I was like, what is this? And it just takes me on an entire journey.
And so I love now you gave me something to think about, something that I embody every day inside of my marriage and inside of parenting and leadership as it pertains to business.
Oh, that's good. That's really good.
I'm in. Whatever question you want to ask.
So interesting because a girl in seventh grade rejected me named Ashley Bostrom at the skating rink. She led me on the whole year and I was deathly afraid to ask her out. And everybody's like, just ask her out. She's going to say yes. I asked her out and she said, no, because I'm in love with Roswell, which happened to be one of my best friends at the time.
And the level of crush, my soul, the level that my soul was crushed in that moment, I said, I will never in my life put myself in a position to be rejected like this again. So in some weird way, I developed all of these skills to be able to position myself to be seen so that they can see me.
And so women, I would find a way for women to always find attraction and come to me, come to me, come to me. One time I was in a nightclub and I would never approach a woman. And I was in a nightclub And I brought a book to a nightclub and I was reading the book in the nightclub.
And the most beautiful that every single person in the club was trying to holler at came to me. She was like, she just sat down with this weird look. She goes, why are you reading a book in a club? And I lied to her and I told her, I said, because my friend dragged me here. I don't want to be here. And I said, if I'm going to be here, well, then I'm just going to be here on my terms.
And I was just reading this book. She was like, so what are you reading? And so it was just. Something that was out of the ordinary that they're not typically used to. So I got really good at finding ways to be seen. That's probably why I'm a really good salesman and everything that I do sells out because I know how to position value. So thank you, Ashley Bostrom, because you gave me a great gift.
But in my past, I never approached a woman. They would always approach me based off of what I was wearing, what I was smelling, that I was different than everybody in the room. If I would see everybody do one thing, I'm like, well, I'm not going to do that thing. I'm going to observe the masses and do the opposite. So I get really good at that.
But I would not get really good at picking the kind of woman that I actually wanted to be with.
So I would pick, you know, what I thought was my picky list. Oh, this exotic woman with nice legs. So I get this exotic woman with nice legs, but she'd have a fiery attitude and she wouldn't know how to make money. And I'd be broke too. So we couldn't figure life out. And it was the same thing over and over and over again. I was like, why do I keep attracting the same kind of women?
Really beautiful, very exotic, nice legs, and there's nothing else to show for. So that was my past. And I slept with, I had cheated on every girl I'd ever had. I slept with so many women. And there wasn't, you know, in my young boy mind, I'm like, score and count. Like I slept with this many women. This would validate my worth and things like that.
And it'd be like, oh man, amongst the guys, I became cool because I sleep with all these women. I had no idea.
how unworthy i felt i had no idea at that time that i was a broken boy trying to be a man with no real role models on how to actually be a man yeah um because even the men were all doing the same things even when they were married so i had no role models of the kind of man i actually wanted to be like so i just settled for what was there and so that was my dating
In the past, it wasn't good, but it gave me data on when I did find the right one, who I was not going to be, because I then found worthiness in myself. And you often treat people how you treat yourself.
It's a weird question because I would not want to change anything. or alter anything that happened because one degree different then most likely I would not be here. But if I could keep the same life that I have right now and nothing changed, then let's play in that possibility.
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