Garrain Jones
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131 appearances
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Dec 2024
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If I could go back, because I would not like, I got baby chief, I got soul, I got a relationship with my 23-year-old daughter now, my beautiful wife. I'm like, no, I'm not trading that for nothing. So if I could keep everything I have the way that I have it now,
And I can go back and I can give little Garen, young Garen, broken boy Garen, trying to fill a hole that he didn't know was bottomless, advice. About dating, I'd say, you must learn how to work harder on yourself than you do on anything else outside of you. And then I'd be like, well, what does that look like? All right, so let me give you this book. Yeah.
You know, give me this book called The Four Agreements. Well, let me give you this book called The Power of Positive Thinking, but I want you to read this book from the context of where you're in now, learning about how to love yourself, learning about how to respect yourself, learning about how to honor yourself, because anyone that you attract... You're going to give them what you give yourself.
And if you give beyond what you give yourself, you're ultimately going to lose it because that energy is not a matching frequency and like attracts like. And so over time, you'll lose what you're out of resonance with. And so I would teach him about how to be in resonance with self. I would teach him how to build a strong foundation of self.
I would teach him about leadership, because if you don't know about leadership, you're definitely never going to lead a household. And so I would teach him about resonance, strong foundation, self-respect, dignity, honor. And I would get him around some healthy men who are married so that he could just learn. And I'm talking about married is not the end all be all.
who are devotional husbands who are devotional to their, to their marriage and parenting and find a way to get him exposed to that environment. That's what I would do.
I love that. I love that.
Mistakes that men make.
If you are in a professional setting and a student comes in your professional setting and somehow you have fallen for the student and then somehow you end up in her vagina and That is the ultimate no-no.
And it's taking advantage of your power. and this happens in music it happens in entertainment modeling it happens in the spiritual communities with facilitators and head coaches and things of that nature because when you're on this pedestal people almost like shrink and it's almost like they'll do what you say and then it becomes this wave of oh no that's leaky sexual energy
And so if you cannot contain yourself with discipline, honestly, you won't be like truly respected. And so there'll be this like lull shadow hanging over what people think of you and then who you really are. And those two are going to eventually bottleneck. And it will never work in your favor because that's how energy works. So that's a major no-no. Were you about to say something?
Okay, yeah. That's a major no-no. I would say that trying to overcompensate and make your life look like something that it's actually not, I'm like, bro, lying... for the sake of approval is a hurt little boy, not gonna work in your favor. And I think one of the biggest things, I wanna speak about what I think all men should strive for. Do your best to live a life of integrity.
And truly, if you truly want to attract the woman that your soul is craving, not the one you settle for. You must become the kind of man that matches that high valued woman. So if you're not a high valued man, you don't stand a chance with a woman who knows herself. So I need you to know yourself. Like, what are you up to in the world?
Like, don't get in a relationship and then be like, oh, can you pay for me? I can't. I need you to take care of me. So baby, it's like an iteration of a baby over and over and over and over and over again. And what women look for, and 94% of my clientele are powerful, driven women. So let me give you a cheat code.
They are looking for, because a lot of women, not all women, but a lot of women, they have this vision of being married, having somebody That can wrap their arms around them so where they can actually just not have to protect themselves. They had to protect themselves their whole life from predators or people wanting something from them their whole life.
So they want somebody that they can feel safe around physically. Mentally and spiritually. So knowing yourself, what you're up to, where you're going, and you can effortlessly communicate that is going to create a notion of safety inside of her womb. And when you are when you have some aspect of physical stature, I'm not saying that's the end all be all.
These are just conversations that I work with women on. And I ask them, what is your dream person? And it's like someone who I feel safe walking down the street with. So you being in your feminine and you want her to be in her feminine, that right there, there's no polarity. So either she's in her masculine, you're in your feminine, or you're in your rightful state.
And she's in her rightful state. And then you can experience what the what the infinity sign actually represents. This coagulation of this where two becomes one type energy. They are looking for somebody who can hold them.
And all of their emotions, no matter how crazy, no matter how rangeful, because as the little kid who is just learning to get all of the stuff out, women have also had their voices stuffed. So imagine that woman being a little girl that's times 10 crazy. never had an opportunity to really express what's in there. So it might in the beginning come out as rage and why do you have to be so angry?
And women are associated with angry, especially black women. So it's like, if you don't have confidence in yourself to know that and communicate, I can hold for all of it. I signed up for all of it. That right there is what's missing in most men, is they blame the very thing that's actually needed to expand them.
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