Garrain Jones
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131 appearances
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Dec 2024
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Like a woman's rage, once you allow yourself to hold, will expand you a thousand times greater than you sit right now by yourself.
Every single time I had any point of connection, whether it was text, whether it was FaceTime, in person, there was this energy that just goes... I was like, what is that? I don't know, but it was just so, there was something so alive, like she awoken aliveness inside of me before I even knew what that term was. And it just never stopped. And on our first date,
I saw something I'd never seen in my entire life. With every girl I'd ever dated, I'd never saw past the next week. And how I would just end up, because I settled for the girl, what would happen was I'd end up dating a girl who was trying to be a woman to then need enough evidence outside, outside evidence, and enough time
To then see if she qualifies to be a wife when I didn't even know what a wife material was. So this is just this bottomless pit. With Blair, there was like this portal opened up. This was on our first date. And I saw what I'd never seen before in my life.
We went to, she asked me on a date. She asked me on a date. Nice. She's like, Garen, has any woman ever asked you on a date? I was like, no. Garen Jones, I'd love to take you on a date. And I was like, all right. I was like, well, when you mean date, when you mean like we're going to eat or we're together. She was like, I think it's like, I take you on a date. I pay for it. You take you on a date.
The next time you go. And I was just like, I've never, this was a conversation I'd never heard in my life. And so as I, it was Sadie Hawkins day. She asked you out as I, as I closed. We went to Mr. Chow's in L.A. And we went to Mr. Chow's in L.A. And then I saw because I wasn't thinking about, no, I'll take you. I was like, this is something new, but I'm open to it. I saw my future.
I saw her being the mother of our children. I saw her being my wife. And I told her that night.
That night, on our first date.
But I wasn't like punching above my weight class.
There was something that took over my whole body and I was willing to express it in its full, raw, vulnerable truth. And if it didn't work out, I was willing to take it didn't work out. But at least I was honest.
She did like this. Went to the bathroom, called her best friend, I found out. And told her what happened. And then ultimately, what I saw is what happened.
Yeah, and I'm saying this might not work for the next person, but it worked for me.
So you write three columns. First column, write the attribute that you want in a woman and be as picky as possible.
Typically, I wrote two attributes. This time I decided I was going to be as picky as possible, and I had 62 attributes on there. Loves God, masculine, can easily slip into her feminine, can make her own money, but loves being taken care of, loves to travel, loves personal growth. And I was writing down, if this were a Build-A-Bear, I'm being so picky about I wrote down 62 attributes.
And then right after that, wrote down how I wanted to feel in the relationship. Next column. How you want to feel in the relationship, but how you want to feel is also what you should mirror. If you're going to meet your mirror.
And I wrote down, I want to feel seen and heard and I want people, I don't want to have to communicate things and for people to just like know when I need help and support and love and things like that. So I wrote that down in its entirety. Third column, the top five places where you would meet this person that you don't typically go to, circle and star the one
that you feel the most connected to that has the most attributes connected to it. So if you look at your attributes column and then you look at where you'll meet this person, make sure mine was literally circled and starred personal development seminar. Interesting how I met my wife who loves to read, who loves personal growth, who can make her own money, but loves being taken care of all of.
And that was the one that had the most. And that was the one I circled and starred. And that's where I met. That's where I met Blair. So you have those three components. Now, here's what's going to happen. Just like you put a specific address in a GPS system, you are putting a specific address in your soulmate's GPS system.
And how that works is when you do that in a car, it'll give you five different ways to get there. The long way or the short way. So... When I wrote down my list, I didn't know that I wasn't half of those things on that list. Wow. So it took three years for me to develop into the person that was actually the reflection of that list.
When I became the reflection of that list, that's when I met my mirror.
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