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Gary Direnfeld

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2805 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

You don't have to go out there.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

You don't have to be vulnerable.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

You don't live where you're living.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

But if it's uncomfortable, step out of your box.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

Just step out of your box.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

Part of that being authentic is I don't normally talk to strangers, but I was wondering how you were doing today yourself.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

Like you can lead with that.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

You can lead with discomfort.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

That's part of being authentic.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

So own who you are.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

Both things are right.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

I do think that we all have our peaks, those with whom we are comfortable.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

And if you're not a member of the club, so to speak, it can be difficult to break in.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

So, you know, I ask people to manage their expectations.

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

And the expectation isn't to break in and be a member of the clique or the club, but

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

The expectation is to say to yourself, can I simply make a connection with anyone?

The Last Show with David Cooper
Loneliness and Making Friends

And that's all you're out to do.