Gary John Bishop

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1,157 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 10 Jul

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So no, I'm not that pragmatic.

And I think most people aren't that pragmatic.

And I think there's an illusion out there that somehow you'll find the one.

And really, I feel as if the job is to explore what's possible between you and this person.

whoever that person is and their potential and your potential.

And so it was less about having, like finding something that matched up with me, which I don't know if that would work for me.

It might work for some people, but I don't know if that would work for me.

What was really captivating for me at the time was being with her had me feel a lot better about me.

And I think I really fundamentally believe that that's what most people go into relationships for.

No, that's an absolute.

Well, because whatever that thing is that they satisfy for you is something you haven't sorted out for yourself yet.

Right, so you go in there, and they're the solution, and you end it with the notion that they were the problem.

Ah, wow.

And what's consistent in all of that is you.

Right.

I mean, I don't know if anybody's ever noticed this, but in every crappy relationship you've ever had, it's got one common denominator.

Right.

So what's great about your kind of pathway, if you like, you can't, first of all, you've got to be able to look at that distinct from blame, right?

And I know a lot of people just heard what you said and thought, well, but what if it is them, right?

I know a lot of people, people sitting there right now going, dang it, I did say that to myself.

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