Gary John Bishop

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The School of Greatness · Why You Tolerate a Relationship You Know Should End | Gary John Bishop · 10 Jul 2026 podcast

And I say, well,

If you take away who's to blame, and so sometimes people say stuff like, why do I keep attracting these kinds of people?

And I say, well, what if it's not attraction?

What if you are literally looking for them?

What if it's you're seeking something about that person that initially solves what you're dealing with?

but will allow it to keep perpetuating, like it keeps showing up and showing up.

I call that an identity relationship.

There's something about you, and it's the same for the other person, that when you get past all the stuff, whatever's incomplete will keep getting activated there, will keep showing up.

So when you start to see it like, oh, these are just two human beings doing what human beings do,

then it's not personal.

Which is radical when you get it like that, like it's not personal.

It's not personally them, personally me.

Like these are just two beings trying to work this out.

And work what out?

Well, essentially work themselves out.

So that's why I insist with people, the greatest work you'll ever do, you'll ever do.

is to get complete with your first 20 years of life.

First 20 years.

Because everything after that is a reflection of it.

I spent 26 years in Glasgow.

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