Gemma Cribb

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1,656 appearances 19 recordings 1 series first heard Jan 2017 last heard Jan 2020

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The Hook Up · Not masturbating for a month?! · 13 Nov 2018 podcast

Um, and they're using masturbation as a way of dealing with uncomfortable feelings and therefore the more uncomfortable feelings they get the more they get hooked on using masturbation to deal with them. voice-verified

So therapeutically our aim would be to help them manage those feelings in a variety of ways. voice-verified

It's not that masturbation voice-verified

is bad per se. voice-verified

It's just that you don't wanna have to do it every time an uncomfortable feeling occurs. voice-verified

Similar to alcohol, right? voice-verified

You don't wanna have to have a drink every time you feel stressed or anxious. voice-verified

You bet. voice-verified

So uh the problem with porn is that it's all fairly similar. voice-verified

So when you watch porn, the sorts of bodies that you'll be exposed to, the s the type of sex that you're exposed to is a fairly um homogenous type. voice-verified

And therefore what can happen is that your sexual turn ons and and your sexual cues can get narrowed. voice-verified

and you can stop feeling as desirous of quote unquote normal sex and normal people's bodies. voice-verified

So I've certainly had clients where we've had to talk about limiting exposure to pornography in order to help them voice-verified

enjoy a rich and full actual sex life with their partner. voice-verified

Absolutely and and sex toys can be really problematic if a woman wants to orgasm voice-verified

Uh, with a partner or just with manual stimulation because the sex toy stimulation is a really different feeling to quote unquote a normal stimulation. voice-verified

Absolutely. voice-verified

And men don't get taught to masturbate. voice-verified

So I've had clients who will sort of strangle themselves um and uh use a lot of pressure without any lubrication and therefore desensitize their penises and and not be able to ejaculate with a woman voice-verified

Or in in other ways using other types of stimulation. voice-verified

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