Gemma Speig
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1,085 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 7 May
Gemma Speig’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Really, I think sometimes relationship hopping is really just a way of avoiding the grief associated with past hurt.
Think about what happens after a breakup.
you're going to feel something.
You have to feel something.
Pain, betrayal, longing, anger.
And there's often this quiet period that really demands we sit with ourselves and let ourselves be confronted with really big emotional questions that kind of suck to answer, but questions like, who am I outside of this relationship?
What do I do with my evenings now?
Why didn't this work out?
What happens if I don't find somebody better?
What happens if I don't find somebody, period?
And for a period of time, we don't know the answer to those questions.
We don't know who we are outside of a relationship.
We don't know for certain if we're going to be okay, if we're going to find somebody we like as much as that last person.
So sometimes it's a lot easier to turn all of that inward focus outwards because sometimes
It doesn't require you to answer any of those questions.
Being in a relationship answers those questions for you.
Who am I outside of this relationship?
Doesn't matter.
I've got this new relationship.
What do I do with my evenings now?
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