Gemma Speig

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1,085 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 7 May

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The Psychology of your 20s · 390. The psychology of serial monogamy & relationship hopping · 28 Feb 2026 podcast

You will come back with such a

Like I cannot speak highly enough of taking some clear designated time away from dating to really address like if love is something that I obviously need, we all need it.

If love and monogamy in the future is something I want, what will that look like for me?

And how will I know when I have it?

And how will I know when my needs are not being fulfilled?

I just think that a dating detox and six months, I don't know, it's just the best.

It resets like your emotional biome.

Like it returns you to the stable, secure point.

You know how I always think about it?

It's like your frequency is not being constantly interrupted.

So you are able to very clearly signal to others and signal to yourself what you want.

And if you are finding that you relate to any of this, I think this is the easiest way to go about it.

Take relationships off the table, deal with the discomfort and it will be uncomfortable.

But know that like this is an investment in your future self, in yourself right now and in any relationship you find yourself in in the future.

Because you're going to come into it with so much more clarity and a much clearer idea of what you want.

and how you go about making relationships work.

I think it doesn't mean breaking off of like, you don't have to stop dating forever.

And you're not doing this as punishment, right?

You're not punishing yourself.

I should have said that very clearly upfront.

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