Gemma Speig
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1,085 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 7 May
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And that is where unhealthy patterns that cause marital breakdowns, divorce, divorce,
deep betrayal that's where they come from the repetition of unhealthy patterns that are never dealt with so when do we know it's time to break the pattern when can we look in the mirror and be like oh i think i need a break from dating i think this may be me
I would say when you realize that dating stops being about connection and fun and starts being about urgency and self-confidence, then you need to take a step back.
When you notice that you are really just going on dates with anyone, you are letting dating take over your life.
When your type always ends up leading to the same ending, it's time to take a break.
I think the biggest indicator though is when you don't even know what you want anymore.
You're just doing it.
You're just dating without intention.
You feel a little bit lost with it.
You feel equally lost without it.
There's like this gap that needs to be filled and you just feel like I cannot sit still until I have somebody.
I think that is the biggest sign.
In those moments of
that is when you need to do a dating detox.
I've spoken about this so often on the podcast before.
I'm so sorry if you are like, God, can she be quiet about this?
But it's because it is so helpful.
literally saying to yourself, same way you do an alcohol detox, the same way you may do a detox to quit smoking.
If you literally just give yourself six months and say, dating is not on the table in the slightest during this period.
And I'll come back to it later, but I really, I don't have to think about it for this period of time.
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