Gemma Spike
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14,836 appearances
31 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 2d ago
Gemma Spike’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 31 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 9.
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You know, I feel like in these moments
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You're you like your friends are probably sick of hearing you say, I told you so.
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But this is your superpower.
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Being able to identify discomfort in others and rushing in to fix it.
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Is a job you are very good at.
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And there is a word for this, there's always a word for these things in psychology, and it's hypervigilance, you've probably heard of it, but it's a state of chronic alertness where your attention is always focused outwards.
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It's always closely monitoring the reactions and emotions.
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of of others and your environment rather than monitoring and regulating how you feel.
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Internally.
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We just want everyone to have a good time.
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We want everyone to be to be happy.
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And if they're happy, who cares if I'm unhappy in the process?
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I think there's this narrative of like I can manage my own bad feelings.
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And I don't believe that they should.
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Because unlike me, they shouldn't have to sacrifice that.
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The good girl sacrifices her own comfort for others and therefore feels that she will be rewarded.
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Other people's unhappiness is much, much more uncomfortable to her than
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Her orange.
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In this vein, I think another classic symptom sign of Good Girl Syndrome is also constantly overanalyzing minor social interactions.
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