Grace Alice O'Shea

It's come up so much in my work.

Let me just write that down.

He should.

Have you not seen it?

No.

Oh my God.

Oh my God.

It's very saucy, but it's really good.

Sex is messy.

You can get special like splash blankets now they're called that absorb any liquid.

Sex doesn't have to be incredible every single time, but it should be a positive presence in your life.

Why is that, do you think?

I think, you know, if you don't hear people openly saying, oh, this is something I struggle with, our human kind of brain can just go into that mode of, oh, but I must be the only one.

I think the more we talk about it, like with this, like with other podcasts, anything, I think hopefully over time, the less shame there will be.

Yes.

It's just, you know, if you can see people in the media or even in your real life talking about this stuff a bit more openly and a bit more vulnerably, then I don't think we would feel as ashamed.

Yeah.

You have to keep at it.

Keep at it.

Yeah, I mean, if you strip it right down, like as humans were born with an inbuilt fear of rejection, it's there for survival.