Guy Itzchakov, PhD

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412 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 1 Jul

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of listening.

When someone is arguing with me and telly and is telling me that I'm wrong,

I won't I'm not able to listen to them.

I initially defend psychologically, like if someone would come into my house, I would def physically defend.

When someone threatens my right and freedom and autonomy to hold a position, I defend psychologically.

Now, when they speak,

I'm not really listening to them.

I'm thinking of counter-arguments.

How I'm gonna act back, how I'm gonna win.

Right?

I'm gonna need to win this conversation.

There is no prize, but I need to win this conversation.

And this this evokes defensiveness.

Now

we o we often see that arguments lead people to actually disc it's called the boomerang effect.

When we argue we can argue constructively, when we argue destructively.

Telling e each other why we are wrong, why we are immoral, why our attitude should not be expressed in this manner.

We become defensive.

And when we become defensive, we cannot change.

We actually bolster our initial attitude because we we drove in two parallel lanes.

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