Hank Azaria

It depended on the young lady.

Uh-huh.

It depended on the victim.

Go on.

Kinda.

You know, one woman, she was very fiery and jealous and volatile and bad temper.

And it was all about appeasing that and, you know, keeping her calm and not triggering her and being a good enough boy that she would never get upset.

You know what I mean?

Another woman I was with was a real workaholic and in her own thing all the time.

It was about drawing her out and meeting her there and taking care of her there.

But the end goal was the same.

I'm gonna calm you down and make you right.

And I got real obsessed with how they weren't right.

And I would point it out all the time.

Like, here's what you need to work on.

Here's what the truth of you is.

Here's the problem.

And I would, you know, I'd look at my end of it like, and I'm making it worse by doing this and I'm going to hold up my end.

But then ultimately you got to be okay so you can make me okay.

And finally I was like, I'm skipping a step here where I can just like go be okay on my own and then see who wants to just kind of play with me in my okayness.