Hayley Kiyoko

We were just in private.

But like.

If, you know, we were out, like she would still hold my hand or like, you know, if someone said something to me, she would definitely speak up for me.

You know what I mean?

Like it's just very different.

She's not taking me on dates with other people.

No.

You know, like there's like there's a crazy.

That is like not love in my opinion.

And I think it's it's like OK to be in a relationship, someone to be like, I'm ready to be out.

They're not ready to be out.

you do that relationship for a while.

And then there might be a point where you're, you can't wait anymore.

And that doesn't mean that you don't love them.

It doesn't mean that you're putting pressure on, you don't want to put pressure on them.

But like the reality is, is you guys are on two different timelines and maybe that person will be ready in five years.

And if you're not, if you don't want to wait five years, like that doesn't make you an asshole.

You know, act with love and be like, listen, I don't want to rush you.

You're on your own journey and I'm going to respect that.

And I'm also on my own journey.