Hayley Vernon

And that's the thing.

It's a big band-aid to rip off, but it's so worth it.

And someone actually compared it to an analogy that when, you know, when you base jump, you base jump and the parachute's wrapped up and you'll bump and you'll fall.

But then the parachute opens and you glide.

But that's,

you just have to take that jump or you just end up sitting in a situation that's uncomfortable but you're content with.

How good is that?

Honestly, how good is that?

Because he has objectified himself and then become objectified by others where all they talk about is what they see and totally can relate to that as well because people are like, yes, exactly the same thing.

It's like, you're like, oh, I am actually nice.

I do have something to offer to the table.

But when no one gives an absolute flying F about anything other than what's between your legs,

you think that that's your value.

And then if people aren't complimenting, you have to look like, this is the thing you have to learn to learn that like through people, unfortunately, not even your own validation.

Like, because if he saw that within himself, he'd know that.

Right.

So he wouldn't need to search for it outside of himself.

But this validation is coming from other people outside of himself.

So you become insecure.

Yeah.