Heather Berlin
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Okay, when I get in the plane, I have no control.
I don't have control.
And if this plane goes down, I'm going to die.
And once you fully accept that,
the fear starts to go down because it's the holding on of control that actually is creating the anxiety.
But once you just accept it, and Buddhists and mystics and all the Stoics have said this.
But this is, I mean, with Alex, once he passes, let's say, whatever it was, 50 feet, there's an acceptance.
No matter what, if I fall, I'm going to die.
And once you accept it, it kind of calms the fear circuit.
So you were able to like cognitive.
Well, that's the top down.
You must have very strong top down processing that you can.
Very good prefrontal cortex.