Heather Turgeon
speaker
155 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Mar 2019
last heard Mar 2019
Heather Turgeon’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
Trend
recordings per month · last 12 monthsNo recordings in the last 12 months.Older appearances are listed below; set an alert to hear about the next one.
Appearances
And then sometimes we have a person who's incredibly s harsh or strict and maybe they have a voice in their head where that comes from, from their own family or whatever it is.
We also see a lot of people who feel
Like they have all the empathy in the world, but they feel walked all over and that makes them sort of swing to the other side and snap back to being overly harsh.
That's actually I'd say that's one of the most common patterns we see is like be the nice guy, be the nice guy, and then all of a sudden you just can't take it anymore and you snap to something too harsh and then you feel terrible.
So I think it's not necessarily one or the other.
It's often a a a swinging back and forth that happens within the family system.
And um, you know, both types of people uh usually feel like something is missing.
They feel like either they're missing a connection
they're missing the warmth and connection with their child, then their relationship is suffering, or they feel like they're not
uh you know, a strong enough parent, a clear enough parent who's really teaching their child how to be in the world and and guiding them.
So both exist and both are, you know, sort of solved or encompassed by ALP.
And it's also one of the
Sure.
The the ALP model is a three step communication model that can really be applied to any difficult moment.
Um the book now say this is designed for parents of baby to school age kids, but really ALP can be, you know, applicable to any relationship.
So the three steps are A, attune.
So this is the moment that you
in w in whatever way works for your child, let your child know that you understand or that you're trying to understand them.
This is the step that's often easily forgotten, I would say, that that can be difficult to remember, but it's often the most powerful step.
So taking that moment to take them in, let them know you understand that's the A step.
Showing 21–40 of 155 · page 2 of 8
← Previous
Next →