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And then I sold a bunch of stuff on Vinted or whatever.

And I'd have people messaging going, oh my God, this has brought me so much joy.

And I'm like, yes.

And quite often I'd put on the post, you know, needs a good home.

So if anyone understood this fabulous jacket, it needs a good home.

So I think it's just about not keeping everything, but being selective.

ADHD tax right there.

Yeah, I think this is the thing, the whole returning purchases and a really good tip for that is if you equate, right, if I go to the post office to return this item and that item's 50 quid, would I go to the post office, which is a mile away for 50 pounds?

Yeah, I probably would actually.

So you almost, and then if you, even if that doesn't fill enough, you then go, what else could I spend 50 pounds on?

I did this with a client a while ago and they were, um,

quite young, so they were like, well, that'll be X amount of beers.

That'll buy me eight beers.

I'm like, so is that now worth returning the item?

Well, yeah, because that's like a night out.

Right.

So you almost have to not quite trick your brain, but switch it.

But I think again, you know, the returns policies, I mean, I could go on about this for ages, Alex, but I think there is this issue with us buying things and they're not able to return them for an executive function skills and it feels too much effort or maybe you've got to go and speak to someone or

No, because the executive function challenges are so much the difficulty because it's not just the executive function, it's transitions.

So actually, like I live in a little village outside Norwich, so actually I've got to take this item, I've tried it on, it doesn't fit.