Hester Grainger

Is it on a notepad?

Is it in our brains?

Because if it's in our brains, it's never happening.

Is it we've just forgotten about it already?

And again, you know,

There's that thing, isn't there, where it's like, oh, I clean on a... You know, I'm going to do all the laundry on a Monday.

But what if we need something for the Wednesday or something for the Thursday?

Or if you're running a family, you know, you've got a whole household and there's PE kits involved in school uniforms or football kits at the weekend.

Actually, it doesn't always work like that.

And if you're neurodivergent, as you well know, you know, your children may probably well be very much so.

So it's that kind of thing as well that almost the whole house has to be involved in that because actually you can be like, well...

you know, I'm going to do the washing on a Monday, but actually your kids haven't told you they've got piles of stuff in their room or whatever.

But, you know, it's about having then a laundry bin that then everything goes in there, et cetera.

But I think being really targeted with it is great, but actually we just try and self-sabotage.

So it's like, well, no, actually, and again, a bit of the PDA kicks in of like,

actually no i'm not going to do that because you've told me to as in you yourself you're telling yourself and your brain you know and i think that can happen is the self-sabotage and then you say no i'm not going to do that today or it then throws you when you need to do the washing more than once a week and you're like well hold on it's now a thursday and i've got to do washing as well because you know there was more pe this week or sports or i spilt something down myself whatever it is actually that can then be really difficult so i would advise against that

Yes.

School uniforms.

Just multiples of things, which I know is really difficult.

I know it can be really challenging, but actually...