Hester Grainger

Because I think there can be this perception that you might watch some, you know...

TikTokers going, oh, this is how you clean your house, clean influencers, which you are amazing.

But then you sort of think, well, why is that not working for me?

Why can't I do that?

And if you've got a ADHD brain like me, there are reasons why.

Yes, this is it.

If the raccoons have remembered the pen off the whiteboard because they may not have done or one of the raccoons broke the whiteboard.

But yeah, I think this is it.

And that's the point I think is really important is for people to not feel bad and wonder, well, why is my house a bit of a mess or why can't I keep on top of things?

And I always say that actually, I think, you know, having ADHD, I find it really hard to be an adult.

Like I'm 48 now and I just still find adulting really difficult.

I have to do it and my husband has to do it.

And, you know, we run our business, Perfectly Autistic, so we're really busy.

And then we've got the teenagers as well who want to live in a nice, clean house.

If you go into my daughter's bedroom, it is spotless.

She's autistic ADHD as well, and it is spotless.

And I think that's quite unusual with teenagers.

So I feel quite blessed.

But yeah, I think it's just not having that shame that can be involved sometimes with your home.

Yeah, I think so.