Hilary McVeigh

It's going to mean that I can't be honest in my relationships.

It's going to mean that I overgive and overdo and then I end up resentful, especially as a projector.

You'll end up being bitter.

And then I end up wanting to push them away.

Yeah.

You know, I kept people at arm's length because God forbid they would actually see that I wasn't perfect because no one is, of course.

And so I was like, well, they can't get too close because then they'll actually see the real me.

And then you don't have relationships and then you're exhausted putting on an act all the time.

And I didn't even realize I was doing that.

So, yeah, it's almost this crumbling.

But in the...

What's coming to mind now is, I'm going to butcher it probably, but Michelangelo, someone asked if he was for the Sistine Chapel.

It was like, how do you know how to create the statue?

This was the quote, I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.

So I think there's this idea that it's not like you have to work out who you are.

It's you un-chip, take away like an onion layer of just removing all the layers until you're left with who you actually are.

And that's a human who is...

flawed but it is also divine in its perfection and so you start to realize that you don't have to be anything other than yourself and all of that that is the unbecoming and from that place

manifestation all the desires all the aligned people all the opportunities naturally come to you because you're aligning with your true self frequency and that's been my experience it was like when I actually stopped trying to be anything that I wasn't things actually started to align and feel better people opportunities business growth all the things when I stopped trying to pretend I didn't even realize I was pretending though that's the whole thing

Absolutely.