Holly Wainwright

But I think that if you're not familiar with this world, it is a really informative watch if you've got kids who are swimming in this world.

Or indeed, if you want to understand what Tyson on maths is consuming in his spare time, I think he's probably got some money invested in HS Tiki Toki's financial fund.

don't believe what they're saying they're just trying to sell you shit i know but everyone on the internet is trying to sell you shit oh god it's really anyway the internet is the problem anyway claire's right there are some lols so if you're not worried about the end of the world just laugh at these silly men yeah silly silly little men after the break do you have a reply only friend or are you a reply only friend

I want to hear why you don't like them though too before we jump in.

But you're not going to get into the endless back and forth about these things.

I loved, listen, on last week's, one of Mia's subscriber episodes last week, you, Amelia and Mia talked about friendship, including a bit of this conversation, but then about the things you need for friendship.

And it was like proximity...

Life stage something.

Energy?

Energy, yeah.

And I love this, right?

It did also make me wonder, listening to that conversation, in whether or not we all might have slightly different definitions of friendship and what we want from friendships.

Because, and like you, Amelia, my life experience is that I've spent many, many years now in no proximity to some of my favourite people.

So I'm very comfortable with not being constantly in contact with people.

Like I, if someone I haven't spoken to for a year messages me and says, let's have a drink,

My first thought is not, where have you been?

I'm like, oh, that would be great.

You know what I mean?

I think there are levels of friendship that this isn't true for, but that in general constant contact is not my definition of friendship.

So I don't think therefore that's why this doesn't – like reply only friends don't upset me so much because I'm kind of like –