Hunter Clarke-Fields
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1,144 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Mar 2020
last heard Nov 2023
Hunter Clarke-Fields’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Boy.
I would love to break them down.
And I love that example.
I really appreciate you sharing that example with us because it's such a great example of um, you know, boundaries needed, right?
Because that parent's needs are, you know, both the parent and the kid's needs are important, right?
You know, they're right there, there's a conflict of needs.
And it's like, how do we how do you know, how do we say, I hold a boundary, right?
And holding a boundary really
involves a lot of the time like being able to experience the discomfort of like, oh, hello, old guilt.
I see fair, you know, or or the discomfort of the whining and just
through the whining at a certain point, you know, or the discomfort of saying no and and having your child be unhappy with a no.
And that's sometimes, you know, sometimes the right decision in those moments.
And you, you know, we have to go through the experience of discomfort in order to
be able to hold to our boundaries and act on them and I love that.
So it's this idea of
being able to experience this you were talking about this experien being able to experience these feelings, feel the feelings.
And that gives that's like that that's whole that mindfulness piece, right?
Of like then being able to
Like if the feelings are like the waterfall, then you're stepping out in front of the waterfall, you're looking at it and saying, Oh, okay, this is what it is.
And now I have the ability to choose because I'm not just like under the waterfall of the feelings.
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