Jaackmate (Jack)

I wanted to be a dad forever.

Did you?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

So it's everything I dreamed of and more.

Like, I found the sacrifices a lot easier to make because I was...

I've been thinking about it for 10 years.

I meet some parents, the way they talk about their fucking kids.

It's like, did you not do any research on what children want?

Yeah, and he's just done people being like, man, I'm not getting any sleep.

And you're like,

yeah like you you didn't read our book like you didn't speak to any other bit you didn't speak to your parents about what you were like as a fucking baby like me and my wife went in with like like being like this is gonna be a slog this is gonna be hard this is gonna be challenging yeah and then it was a fucking breeze and we loved it and

What was it, really?

We had good babies.

We had really good babies.

They slept pretty fucking good.

Also, my wife chose to and succeeded with breastfeeding.

And that's a fucking, what a dream that is.

Because if they don't, right?

There's a number of reasons why you wouldn't breastfeed.

obviously as a dad you're trying to get to 50-50 your job is like baby's crying in the middle of the night you wake up you go down you heat the milk up you start it together none of that because I'm in bed baby wakes up crying tits are right there tits are right fucking there I can't I can't help I'd love to help you know I'll feed it into the mouth but no my wife was just able to just take the baby on so and then you know baby just fucking falls asleep put it back in the crib we there were tough nights of course but we you know