Jackie Tohn

Because also, there's two people involved in the relationship.

And the way that I wanna get started should be taken into account as well as the way that my partner wants to get started.

For me, it's more of like a, well, is she getting her needs met and why isn't she bringing that up?

And as far as like the Instagram and YouTube,

You almost got to break apart this thing, right?

Yes, there's multiple different issues going on.

And in your life in general, but yeah.

But also, like, is he, and she just doesn't know?

But also, if you say you are, you're lying anyway.

And is that worse where you're like, no, I've never thought someone else was hot.

Because then if you have a partner who's like, you better not be thinking of anyone else.

It's like, well, OK, then I'm not.

Do you know what that's what I'm going to say?

I'm happy to say that.

And I also wonder if it's like that thing in mating and captivity where it's like there has to be distance created for you to then be attracted to a person, which is why it's like why sex lives die so much in relationships because that person is so available to you.

And there's that sense of this isn't her.

This isn't them.

There's like a little bit of distance there.

They're literally like an anonymous bent over pee hole.

Every single thing.