Jade Warshaw

What if we smiled sometimes?

And as a nerd, you're like, no smiling, just savings, right?

And so, but it's you saying, hey, I made a first pass at this, but your voice at this table really matters.

And both of you have to practice letting each other speak up.

Does that make sense?

Well, the conversation before that is you going first with, I'm a nerd.

Would it be cool if I made a first pass at a budget and I'm going to hand it to you because I know I'm going to miss some stuff like joy and fun and laughter and meals.

And I want you to be fully at this thing.

Right.

And if she says, yeah, that'd be awesome.

Then that's fantastic.

If you think she's going to look at it and she's already nervous to challenge you and she's going to hand it back and say, it looks fine.

Dave would say, I'll say she has to change at least one or two line items, like get in the practice of I'm going to change something.

And you get in the practice of smiling and saying, ah, I'm glad, I'm glad, I'm glad you're here, right?

Not, well, I did the research and I, you know, that kind of thing, right?

Absolutely.

What do you think, Jade?

What am I missing here?

Have you all ever lived together?

No, never.