Jameela Jamil

You're only afraid of older women and older women having a voice and an opinion and access to younger women.

If you're afraid of what they're going to tell other women, you're afraid of sitting with or dating a woman your own age because she might be able to actually see you.

So you have to date someone who's barely out of her teens because she won't have your number because she doesn't even understand the world yet.

It's all fear.

All of it's fear.

It's hatred.

It's a mask of hatred, but really it's terror.

They're so afraid of us.

And it's so sad because that strength that we have doesn't have to be subdued.

It could be harnessed more intelligently than this.

Yeah, I changed a lot.

I was definitely shy.

I was someone who didn't believe that my life had any value.

I'm not confident in all of the ways

I just don't believe that it is my job to be perfect.

And I don't believe it is my job to be right all of the time.

And I don't believe it is my job to please everyone or be approved of by everyone.

I think I just have quite a sturdy sense of self in which I accept myself.

I'm not I'm always you know I'm always a work in progress but I don't feel this responsibility that I've been bred with to to have everyone to meet everyone's needs and to match everyone's individual tastes and I think it's this bizarre bonkers thing that we put on girls in such a young age.

To be palatable.